Your H... how pathetic. He wants this D, and yet he cannot be bothered to actually advance his own cause, leaves it up to you? What a total frakktard.
And you, babe, are just so unbelievably together and so far above him. I hope you can now find the peace and serenity you deserve, the contentment he has robbed you and your DD's of.
As much as I believe in M and doing everything humanly possible to try to make it work, your H is so derelict in his responsibilities on even the most basic and lenient level that even I am saying you're going to be much better off without than with with this person he is being at present.