aiming for a new me 11

[glamgirl]

Dar MWG is right. Just make him feel comfortable. I know my h has been afraid to talk to me thinking I will judge him put him down. Your h needs to feel very comfortable before he is going to open up.

When he talks, just listen. Nodd your head smile and just validate. You don't need to say much. You can throw in now and then that is wonderful h, I am so proud of you, thanks for sharing that means so much to me. I like that idea.

Get the point? Everything is all positive and supportive. Geesh this is what I have been doing the past 2 months and my h can't keep his hands off me now.

Something must be working.