I think you did a great job. You need to show W that you don't need her and that you will be fine without her.
Your W will test you. I have been recommending reading this: Levine:"Hold on to your NUTS" to every guy. Not sure If I recommended it to you yet, but it is worth reading ASAP. That and DR are my guide to a better ME.
Become the man you always wanted to be.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712