It is for YOU that you do these things. I have read others say that the best DBing happens after you give up. I think that is true.
Hi gForce, I have been away from these boards for about 2 months now and Mike called me and told me the great news about your situation so I felt I needed to come on here and tell you congratulations. I am happy for you.
The quoute you stated above is the best piece of advice anyone on this board can read. My sitch has not changed at all. Only about 3-4 weeks ago did I realize it was time to stop fighting for the marriage and go and find happiness and cut my losses. I am moving back to my hometown this weekend which is about an hour away from where I live now. I feel like 500 lbs have been lifted off of me now that I have decided to move on with my life. My W and I have mediation in 2 weeks and as I once dreaded this day, I am now looking forward to it so I can move on with my future knowing some of what it may bring financially.
Good luck to the new M you are experiencing, you deserve it. PING
