Hi Neil- i hear ya...not afraid to disagree with him at all. ill say yes within reason..but part of what i have done in the past is override his wants. i want him to take the lead to feel like the MAN in our marriage and to be the one to make an effort to do whats best for our marriage as well. he will step up to the plate- and in the future he will have made the decision and cant use it as an excuse to be annoyed at something or blame anything we chose on me...bc in the past i have really railroaded us in certain directions.
he is learning that he needs to speak up too if he isnt happy...
it is good for him to take the lead now- a big 180!
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