MMF, I think she probably does miss the dog. However, I do think she is starting to miss the life we had. I think that has been slowly building for the last while now.
Gman, Post all you want. At about a month in to this, I realized that if we were to get through this, I was going to have to be her friend rather than her advesary. I still maintain that. On a daily basis, I try to treat her like my W. Sometimes she comes to me or will open up to me if I ask her. Soetimes not. I admit, this isn't always easy. There has been times when I wanted to jump down her throat or get mad at her for something she has shared. However, I have bitten my tonge mostly becasue I want her to continue to come to me.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford