When things with the OW go sour...

[saffie]

Amy,

I came to these boards about a year after my H finished his A. I couldn't get OW out of my head and so she was continuing to ruin my M because of that even tho' she was physically gone. I really haven't had any consistent thread. If you look at my earlier posts by clicking on my name and going back to the beginning you will get a feel for what was going on.

If you ladies want me to give you a precis on here or on your thread Amy, I can do that if it is easier.

One thing I would say about OW working for one's H - I was in the lucky, (ha!!) position that my H was the CEO of the Co.. I copied all the directors contact details into my cell pone and made it very clear that I would be VERY public if H pursued his R with OW. I didn't care if he lost the Co. and our standard of living was reduced. Although a stay at home mom I was pretty sure I could go back full -time if required and get a fairly decent salary - nothing like what H earns -and we would have to downsize, but we would survive.

I used some pretty strong arm tactics to get H's attention back - but you know what - in my sitch it worked because my H thought I didn't love him anymore.....and putting up such a fight showed him I did. We used L's to resolve the OW and her employment with the Co. issues.

I don't honestly think one makes much progress until OW is history.