So, I've painted my nails, done my eyebrows, done a double bout of facercise and then spent the rest of the evening trying to find a suitable outfit from my wardrobe and failing miserably. I have something for if it was going to be a bit chilly, but the weather's supposed to be sunny, which is a nightmare (I've never said that before!). Hopefully the solution will come to me in the morning- keep your fingers crossed.....thank you Ali and Jeff-meister for the great ideas on clothes- classy but flirty. Perfect.
Michelle- I wish I knew what really worked. It's all generally been casual fun conversations and trying to listen to H and validate him. Compliments, and the one night he said he still loves me, I'd put his hand on my left melon. I might not do that last one again but will go with the rest. Thanks for the flirty suggestions, Ali- I'll definitely try and see what happens. And I won't mention it being our anniversary (thanks Julia), but think I'll get a card just in case as H bought me a card and some chocolates last year and I'd got nothing. I won't give it to him unless he gives me one though, and will keep it neutral in tone.
BTW, H's team just scored a last minute winner in the Champions League- very exciting and I had to interrupt my typing to cheer them on. I sent him a text saying how excited I was and he replied almost immediately (waited til the end of the game) agreeing and making a joke of it.
So, my expectations for tomorrow night are suitably low. I wasn't really jumping for joy when H asked me about tomorrow (thank you for noticing Al), although it was a goal for this week that he would ask me. I'm not sure why so nonplussed; detached/having no expectations/assuming this means nothing to H maybe? I hope that makes it easier tomorrow evening, and guess it will in some way. We'll see. No expectations, no expectations.
Phew, I'm so excited from the football. Not going to be able to sleep! What's life come to when you're more excited about H's football team scoring a last minute winner than going out with your H on your wedding anniversary?!
I am so happy that you are going to see H on your anniversary... on a *date!*
You sound so good... so strong and detached. I am proud of you.
If we lived on the same continent, I would let you raid my closet for any & all classy yet flirty outfits!!! we know at least the busts would probably fit since we are Sisters of The Melons
Hang in there, sweet thing!!! you are doing great!!!!
but will go with the rest. Thanks for the flirty suggestions, Ali- I'll definitely try and see what happens. And I won't mention it being our anniversary (thanks Julia), but think I'll get a card just in case as H bought me a card and some chocolates last year and I'd got nothing. I won't give it to him unless he gives me one though, and will keep it neutral in tone. 
Not that you need it!