The first domino

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Julia, we were all waiting for news it seems and it sounds like it went really really well, it couldnt have gone better and you did some excellent DBing and sounds like you surprised him and seemed a bit different to what his expectations of you are. Its great that he was the one that said, ok suppose I'll see you soon - I never said that to an ex I was done with! I hope he means that on some level and comes back eventually with another text of the dog, or asks for a pic of the cat or something.

Finances is such a tricky awkward one isnt it, as there are joint bills and I think their guilt at leaving means its hard for them to grasp the financials and really look at it, like they'd rather it would just go away!

What was the plan with your house, is it going on the market? ALso, I love that you said you felt so in love and pleased to see him, thats great for yuo that you are still feeling that. I sometimes read peoples threads and they have so many bad things to say about their ex, I'm surprised that they are DBing at all!

You must be relieved that it went so well, I thikn the glass of wine was a great idea !! I took to doing that in my early dbing days (and I had been practically tee-total for 5 years before that, although, not anymore!)

Ali xxx