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I am pretty flexible...

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Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Oh Lola, I can so identify with you.

The excitement and progress, all mixed up with the doubt and wonder of what their thinking, and where things will end up.

I'm SO over this ride, and just ready for him to be home, and life to be good again. And the thing is, is I see it so clearly, but I know he doesn't yet, so I have to be patient. It's so hard though.

Try to cling to the positive baby steps.

Chris


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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
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Thanks Chris, I am doing just that. I know we are slowly starting to make progress, and this is good. I need to hold fast to what I have been doing, and keep DBing and letting him have his space. I am ready, too, but he is not right now. This is all he can give right now, and I have no expectations. When he is ready, he will give more.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Originally Posted By: LolaL

Oh, BTW, get drunk at 9 am and bite my big toe????

Yeah, lmao, YOU know who you are....




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I probably would get drunk by 9:00 a.m. if I had a really good reason...and in good company!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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It's 5 o'clock somewhere!


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9am in Texas is 5pm somewhere in Europe....bottoms up!


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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AMEN, LET'S ALL GET CHIT FACED!!!


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I whole-heartedly endorse this idea!


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Hell it IS 5:10 here now \:\)


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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