Phil, I think most people that post to you want to genuinely want to help you.It is like a car accident. Some people want to just stop and stare at the carnage, and some people want to actually stop and try to help.
I hope and pray your wife comes back. But she will need lots of time, mlc is no picnic. I have treated my wife with nothing but love and respect over the last 9 months.We are friends, but she still is working on the divorce papers, and will probably have them finished in the next month.
So, there are no guarantees. It all comes down to the Lords will and his timing. You cannot rush Gods will. You can fight it, argue about it, but you cannot change it.
We all know how you are feeling, everyone on here has at one point felt the same way.
God wants a humble Phil, He cannot work on you if you do not humble yourself before him. He is the answer to all your questions.No matte how your wife treats you, you need to love her regardless. She is hurting, she is confused, please don't make it worse. Let go of your pride Phil.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
