In all honesty, lately I feel you are a little off kilter.
I refrain from posting for fear of being attacked by you if I don't agree with your words.
My personal opinion is that you have been very harsh and rude to so many people who really want to help you.
If you don't like what they post on your thread, don't respond, just ignore them. Eventually they will get the message.
Nobody wants to see you fail.
It would give us all the greatest pleasure to see you as a success story.
But... you have to be the one to initiate the new dance moves. It is obvious to all who post to you that nothing will change until you begin to make changes to yourself.
Begin with less defensiveness.
Try being a gentle warrior.
We really are all wanting to help you to succeed.
(((((hugs)))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.