H had 3 year affair and I never knew! (2)

[happycamper]

Hi DQ! Good to hear from you!

Thanks for your input once again, I think it was some of the correspondence I had with you in the early days that helped me to see some of the things that H had experienced and really helped me to be very gracious towards him. I'm grateful.

I have ordered a book on SA (only in the last two days though). I think now the shock of the separation bit has passed, and everyone knows, I feel able to look into it.

He said he is constantly looking for people who tell him he is a 'special boy'. It's very sad.