No phoenyx...and that is your opinion. Real sorry you feel that way. Did you ever stop to consider that they are the ones acting likes asses.
I tell them the problem, and why it will not work.
It's simple. Nothing I do is right in her mind. NOTHING! Now there is no changing that. So I leave her alone.
Hoosier, Yeah that was real helpful. Sticking up for people. Hoosier Please don't post to me anymore. You are not helpful. In my opinion you have never been helpful.
Why do you post to me? To overwhelm me...?
There you go Phil. Show your your true colors. Just let it all hang out so everyone passing through here can see what you're really made of.
Hoosiermama has posted some of the most insightful and kindest things to you. How dare you tell her she has never been helpful!
I personally find myself hoping that EVERYONE will abandon you because that's exactly what it takes to get the attention of people like you. I'd love to one day hear the story of how God isolated you and knocked you flat on your back so that you truly had no other choice BUT to shut your mouth and look to Him.
I hope that day comes for you soon because it won't be long til the only thing left for you to lose will be your foolish pride.
Yeah, Hoosier.... I already knew that. So what... You still want to fight for Amy. Look in my opinion the woman is a protty. She can label it whatever she wants. Penecostal hell fire whatever.
She tries to speak authority on me, and attempts to question my love for my savior which is totally out of line. She has no right to question my loyalty to Christ.
Then she said I think I'm God. Other way around...
IRRELEVANT!
Really Hoosier, what is your purpose here. Sincerly I think I get so bogged down with the utter BS I miss the real meaning of a message. Do you think you can go back and find something you posted to me that is helpful? What I think would be helpful?
i'm sure i am being banned from your thread as i type this so i am going to ask you a question for you to answer to your self. reguardless of your posted answer, please answer this question when you are alone, and rested and still. ask God to help you answer it as i believe that he just gave it to me to ask you, i didn't have it 2 minutes ago. what makes your W better off being with you than without you at this time? not the typical DB generic crap answers that we read about divorced women, or psy 101 stuff about relationships.... but in your life, in your sitch What makes phils w better off with you, than without you?
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
She tries to speak authority on me, and attempts to question my love for my savior which is totally out of line. She has no right to question my loyalty to Christ.
No. I tried to tell you about the Authority that WOULD be behind you if you and your actions actually lined up with the Word.
As far as questioning your "love" for your Savior, I never did that. In fact I've referenced the obvious regard for Him that must lie deep in your heart.
However, I do wonder, if you love Him so and are so "staunchly and unwaveringly" HIS, why then do you NEVER, EVER do work that even remotely resembles Him?
It's not like you're in Christ and have battles and slip sometimes or get cranky on occasion like all the rest of us. You do not reflect Him AT ALL in your interactions on the boards, in your stories about dealing with your wife and children or even when you tell us about going to church or seeing your mother. You do not reflect Him. Again, it's not the same as other believers who have to play hard ball sometimes even with one another - you, Phil, you NEVER seem to REPRESENT Christ.
And THAT should ALWAYS be questioned when a person is claiming to be His yet consistently acts that way that you act.
Yeah, Hoosier.... I already knew that. So what... You still want to fight for Amy. Look in my opinion the woman is a protty. She can label it whatever she wants. Penecostal hell fire whatever.
She tries to speak authority on me, and attempts to question my love for my savior which is totally out of line. She has no right to question my loyalty to Christ.
Then she said I think I'm God. Other way around...
IRRELEVANT!
Really Hoosier, what is your purpose here. Sincerly I think I get so bogged down with the utter BS I miss the real meaning of a message. Do you think you can go back and find something you posted to me that is helpful? What I think would be helpful?
Hoosier really did you hear what I said. Go away.
Do you want me to go away or do you want me to
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go back and find something you posted to me that is helpful? What I think would be helpful?
It's a little bit confusing.
Besides, it's impossible. I don't know what you think would be helpful. No one does, Phil. Why is it so important to keep proving that she is the crazy one?
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
What makes phils w better off with you, than without you?
I already know the answer... Yes I know you said to answer it myself.
With me, she was insecure. She begged for my love, which I thought I was giving. She was Jealous. Unhappy and unmanageable. She could never relax. She was high strung. She had very little understanding to my needs. Everything I did was wrong because I was a target to some form of unhappiness.
Now she has become a woman or deceit. A woman who is justifying her feelings with fabracations and falsehoods. Some things have merit, others do not.
My problem was I didn't know how to react to her. Constant verbal abuse, and I would get to the point were I would lash out.
Without me... She doesn't verbally abuse me as much. One because she doesn't really communicate with me. Two when she does try the hooky pokey, I have learned not to react to it.
Without me... Perhaps she is growning up. So if she does come back, she will not be so insecure about me flipping through the television stations seemingly pausing on a pretty girl. Just one example. Perhaps she will be more understanding about life in general. Perhaps she'll become a woman in total mind, and not have any child like quality.
Which one of us is going to grow up first? Most likely me...
Phoenyx... I didn't ban you. There are three people that are banned. Puppy, Forrest, and Hoosier.
Sometimes I think that the names change, but they are the same people...
Forrest is a pretty cool guy Phil. I think you and him probably do about the same line of work. I have seen his rack mount servers, satellite controllers and storage units and was most impressed. Some of his writing style might be confusing to some, but he has saved his marriage and makes a lot of sense to me.
Phil. Why is it so important to keep proving that she is the crazy one?
Because she said I was the perfect canidate to become the next Scott Peterson. I was going to stalk and kill her.
Because she watched too much Fox news. She was emmersified with cases like Petersons. And the woman that was on life support for 10 years in a coma.
This became her reality.
Who is killing who here? I'm the one dying a slow death. Bursting with love, pain, and hurt. Looking for answers when there are none.
Two miscarriages in a row. One summer, then another summer, then the next summer. Our home is terrorized in the middle of the night twice within a weeks time.
Three bad summers in a row. This is the fourth bad summer in a row.
Her sister was pregnant and had the baby. Four months later pregnant again.
Did the terrorism event on our home trigger a post partum?
Post partum, bipolar, MLC, depression whatever label you want to put on it. It is all the same symptoms.
I enabled her to leave by giving her 5K. I know she is miserable alone. You can see it everynight with the exhaustion on her face from working. Her decision to work. Her decision to leave. Her decision to justify.
Now I'm overwhelmed, because of this site. I should be doing my homework, but I have the unkeen ability to want to do that. Because it is boring. I much rather battle words here with you.
