Hello everyone who contributed to the now-locked Detaching thread. I've decided continue on with it, hoping that many people will join in and just share their thoughts, feelings, words of inspirations, successes and failures while learning how to detach.
I have been slapped more than once recently by SG for not "focusing, and for asking advise from too many people." I happen to like me enough to want to try and get the best possible advise so I can make the best possible changes in myself. Although I'm not that good at it yet, I plan to become better through forums like these, through practice, and through time. I only have three months of DB knowledge behind me. I hear you all talking about how it often takes 12 to 18 months. So, I have hope.
I've been advised to go dark. I have not spoken to my Husband in two days, save one time early yesterday morning when he called me for 30 seconds. So, I am feeling positive about my progress. If others will join in, I'm sure I'll gain some valuable knowledge and be able to give some of my own life experiences in return.
