Letting go and moving on is the sensible thing to do right now. I'm lucky that W is generally pleasant, we'll be good co-parents.
I don't really see her as a 'mess' any more. She's just living her life, looking for whatever will make her happy.
At least I'm not witnessing any more of her strange behaviors, maybe she isn't having any of them now that she's out of the house.
I mentioned to her Dad last night that she's calling me before coming over and is respecting the rules I set up. He said "Yeah, she knows she messed up with you so she's being careful". He knows her pretty well too. He says I need to just let her go and move on because she has moved on.
Anyway, I miss her, at least the 'her 'I used to know.
I'm still stuck with the financial mess but I'm doing something about it slowly. At least it's 'hopeful' instead of 'hopeless'.
