Role reversal...from a HD wife

[Vorlon]

Hi,

We ran into a little difficulty about a year ago with ED. It was situational but grew as I started to doubt if things were going to rise to full attention. It became very stressful since I didn't want to disappoint my wife and it really hit her confidence hard. Me too BTW. She had been showing very little interest in sex back then and I was starting to get resentful and hurt. Then one day we had a great day together and she was feeling frisky and surprised me by being uncharacteristically spontanious and agressive. Well things didn't happen right away and I went into a panic. We had a failure to launch. I was willing to make her cum orally but the fact I didn't get hard upset her as she was having issues with not feeling attractive enough for me. She started crying and it became a disaster as you can imagine. Unfortunately my wife took it very personally which didn't help either. So I was losing confidence in myself and feeling guilty about letting her down.

After that I started looking for natural remidies and went to my Dr. Told her all about it and got tested for low testosterone...was on the low side but not terrible. Started taking some over the counter hebal suppliments S t e e l l i b d o and got a perscription. I used the herbals as maintenence and only used the perscription when I knew we are going to be doing it multiple times that day or evening. I found that it was primarilty a confidence issue with me but the suppliments did help. The perscription worked as advertised BTW. The ED has only really surfaced 3-4 times. But it is a big mental issue that I am still aware of today.

I also started thinking about sex more through out the day and have actually brought back my level of desire as well. I send flirty and sexy messages to my wife through out the day and it gets us both warmed up.

I have been weening myself off the suppliments and perscriptions. I still take 1-2 supliments per day but havn't needed the perscription for nearly a 8 months. I have to trust that everthing will work if just given enough time. I also took the advice of Dance Queen and been more sexually aggressive with my wife. She really liked that. She needs me to be the man and the initiator...That came out after we talked about it a lot.

You can do things about most forms of ED. It is not hopeless.

Vorlon