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Originally Posted By: LostPhil
Puppy,

Nothing in your post was helpful. The story of the boat is a rehash.

What are you saying for me to get her back? You said nothing. You just wanted to justify your position to be right about the prayers you have said.

Do you remember why I even asked you not to post to me? Well rather than you spin your wheels. I will tell you because I remember it like it was a second ago. You told me to divorce my wife is she is so bad. Which was the wrong answer.

Now here you are again not helping. You came back on this thread to give someone a high five and rub my nose in it.

GOOD BYE PUPPY! God did not tell you to post to me.

In my opinion you are blatantly disrepectful to my sitch. Then your are disrepectful because I have asked you numerous times not to post to me.

When I want Puppy's opinion. I will include the word Puppy.

So please go back in the corner.

Disrespectful, insolent, arrogant, demeaning, pompous.


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did it ever occur to you that when you stop acting like an ass people (including your W) might be nice to you?


I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
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No phoenyx...and that is your opinion. Real sorry you feel that way. Did you ever stop to consider that they are the ones acting likes asses.

I tell them the problem, and why it will not work.

It's simple. Nothing I do is right in her mind. NOTHING! Now there is no changing that. So I leave her alone.

Hoosier, Yeah that was real helpful. Sticking up for people. Hoosier Please don't post to me anymore. You are not helpful. In my opinion you have never been helpful.

Why do you post to me? To overwhelm me...?

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sirprizeme,

I thought you said you have been reading my stitch.

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you know what - would you be open to going to individual counseling? Maybe a face-to-face conversation would help.


You go to counseling...

I'm not the one that needs counseled. It is my wife that needs it. Because she is bat sh|t crazy, and now she is some form of depression, MLC, or whatever. Which I just simply state it to be a problem.

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Phil, what are your expectations and goals from this site?


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Hmmmmmm, could you please post a list of people that "are" allowed to post to you?


No Sorry, that would take too much time.

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I'm confused..........if you don't want advice, why are you here? Also, sometimes the advice may not be what you "want" to hear but is what you "need" to hear.


You know I think I just want to prove she is the crazy one.

But all of you are making me more crazy.

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problem is this. when "EVERYONE is against me" 9 times out of 10, the problem is mine. trust me when i tell you this.... from experience, the Lord allows us to go through things for reasons. maybe to humble us, maybe we need to grow, maybe for other reasons. if we don't learn, the lessons continue. our spouces left us for a reason, mlc's happen for a reason. there is not a poster on this board whose m is in trouble, or ended, ONLY because of the walk away. not a popular statement, but that doesn't make it any less real. you are abusive toward people that do not agree with you. the statement "nothing i do is right in her mind" is a defeatest attitude and cry baby also. again, been through it all. lose your resentment, actually take in the word when you read it. read up on speaking death and life before you read up on spiritual warfare and intercession. the problem isn't all your w's. the fact is, the only thing keeping you from "saving your M" is your attitude


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St Chrysostom at Constantinople had 40 women deacons attached to the basilica of Hagia Sophia, as wel1 as 100 male deacons. From the correspondence of the Fathers we know a good many by name: Salvina, to whom St Jerome wrote; Macrina, the sister of St Basil the Great; Anastasia, an assistant of Severus Bishop of Antioch. We also have many epigraphic inscriptions, such as that of Theodora in Gaul (sixth century) and Sophia in Jerusalem (fourth century): “Here lies the servant and Virgin of Christ, the deacon, the second Phoebe.”


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Phil, what are your expectations and goals from this site?


I have the same expectations from this site as I have from my wife. NOTHING

I use this place to vent. Then I get some erroneous opinion about something that isn't even relevant.

For crying out loud I am even questioned on my faith.

I'm staunchly Catholic and unwaivering. I have a deep love for my Savior Jesus Christ.

Yes lately I do believe I have put her in front of my heart. For I do love my wife as Christs loves the Church. I don't care what she does I will always love her. She will always be my wife.

She just needs to stop hurting me. She needs to come home.

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Originally Posted By: LostPhil
No phoenyx...and that is your opinion. Real sorry you feel that way. Did you ever stop to consider that they are the ones acting likes asses.

I tell them the problem, and why it will not work.

It's simple. Nothing I do is right in her mind. NOTHING! Now there is no changing that. So I leave her alone.

Hoosier, Yeah that was real helpful. Sticking up for people. Hoosier Please don't post to me anymore. You are not helpful. In my opinion you have never been helpful.

Why do you post to me? To overwhelm me...?


No, Phil, to get your attention so maybe the obvious will sink in. It's always someone else's fault. You're always right. And that seems to be working out really well for you, right?

Wow--I'm one of the Banished Ones. I'm in very good company.


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