Have a wonderful time on your trip. I would tell you not to think about this crap, but i know that is hard. When my h and I were seperated we had decided to spend X-mas together for the kids. he ended up leaving the night before because he was angry and everything was my fault. It was that moment that i became very strong. i knew this was not my fault and that if he wanted to be gone that it was the best thing for me. i wanted my H back, not this shell of a man that just looked like him. I ended up at his parents for X-mas and had a good time.

You can do this. We have amazing strength inside. Most of the time we don't even know that it is there. Put a smile on your face, spend time with your kids and find your innner strength. he will be the one missing out, NOT YOU!!!!! Just keep reminding yourself, this is not the man you married. He is an ALIEN!!!


Have lots of fun!!!!

M-33
H-35
S-13 &14
ST-9
DT-5
PA-21-08-07
Came Home 12-01-08
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