This might just be the best timing as I'm in a bit of a crappy, irritated mood right now. Could focus on some positives:

What I like about CJ:

1) He's funny, witty,...makes me laugh quite a bit
2) He's very smart...that's good because I'm smart too and without that balance I can REALLY run roughshod over a guy
3) He's sensitive
4) He helps a lot around the house
5) He likes the same kind of music and TV as I do
6) He's a very good dancer
7) He loves cats (almost?) as much as I do

I'm sure I'll think of more...funny thing is, whenever the R books would break out that exercise of listing 5 negatives and 5 positives about your S...I always had an easier time with the positives, of course, that was "pre A"

Shiny