I agree how paramount what you said was true. We did a lot of similar things. It was hard getting to that part....as soon as I stopped looking at it from getting him back to what do I need to do so survive and be happy doing it...the tide turned. Now it didnt' happen over night but getting to that unhappy place in our marriage didn't. Congratulations on moving forward .
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too