This thread belongs to everyone. Even though we've all had difficult times in our M's, and our spouses may have been acting very differently...even if we have to reach back in our memories before our M's went haywire or MLC's went full-blown...there are reasons we fell in love with who we did. What are your reasons?

Here are a few of mine:

1. H is considerate
2. H is dependable and has integrity
3. H has just enough quirks to keep my on my toes and never get bored
4. H is kind and has a strong nuturing side
5. H is intelligent and verbal. Even though we are working on communicating better about our emotions and needs, we can easily have long conversations about all kinds of things and really enjoy talking with each other.