Thanks trusting! you are right I want H to come back because he loves me not because he's jealous. I think my H is also in the depression/withdrawal stage but I'm not sure. He has been spending more time at home but I think it's just to spend time with our 4 year old s which is great because for 1 1/2years he has not spend any time with our s. We are in the process of the D but I'm still hoping he comes back to me.
