Julia- being yourself is all you need to do. whatever worked with your receptionist will work with your H. listen, really listen and empathetically reply. make it all about him. keep going with his thoughts for as long as he needs. silence is ok too. a soft smile during the silence is nice too. love. kindness....you know it all! you are a sweet woman.
if he says something dramatic just take a breath and slowly say- can you tell me more and say i understand. no matter what you can understand.
its not about you!
so if its all good- its all bout you! ha ha- just kidding - but you know what i mean.
you are doing great and DB'ing is your way of life now!
you are so clear that you even asking for all this help and clarity is exactly what will get you your dreams.
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