I just started reading up on your thread. I'm in the same boat (except my OW is actually living here now)! At any rate, I know what you mean about not knowing if you could get over it. I'm not sure I can either. I want my H home, but what if he gets here and I want him out again!!!! So to keep my sanity, I'm focusing on only one thing at a time. I think that the fact that you are even here on the board looking for answers indicates that you have the kind of heart that could forgive, and that your committment to your M is very, very strong. Hang in there! I'll start catching up on your story, and getting to know you better! We can get through this together!
saffie, you seem to have a lot of insight, and your sitch sounds soooo like mine (the OW works for my H). I thought reading your story might give me (and LHF) some encouragement. Can you tell us how to find your old threads? Thanks!
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
