WOW. I am amazed. I am also amazed you are so calm - thats huge! Ok, so he didnt come up with a stellar date, but the fact he has suggested going out at all on your anniversary speaks volumes to me and is hugely positive. I'm so thrilled for you !

I reckon you shouldnt wear anything too formal, so no boots and skirt. Go casualish but flirty!? - how about a knee length dress? With shoes? Or if its cold/rainy, fitted trousers and pretty top?? Make sure you have lots of really nice jewellery/hair done, so you look classy, but dont go too OTT on the clothes?

As for how you should act.. you may as well treat it as a date, lots of eye contact, the off brush of his small of the back or squeeze of the knee, offer him to taste your food off your fork, that kind of thing!?

I'd be pleased as punch if I was you (as much as you can, present circumstances permitting hey!) that he has asked you for dinner on your wedding anniversary, thats really really great news Lisa, hugs to you, keep your eyes on the prize.

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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