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Good luck Lola!!!

Sounds like you are doing well, and this is the most important thing. I'm sure you will dazzle him.

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It is amazing what you think once you gain some perspective.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Hi Lola...have fun when you see him. The outfit does sound pretty nice are you wearing FM pumps?? I was thinking you could spritz just a little of the spray in your hair and nowhere else. Vanilla may make him think of home baked goodies too so it should be a positive smell \:\)

About the office party. I think that you know your sitch best so if NOT inviting him is best right now then don't invite him.


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Just got a call from H, he has to be out on the west side of EP so he will be here shortly. So much for having a minute or two!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Most guys are pretty visual. All he needs is a second to catch a glimpse of you!


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You'll be fine...remember to smile and relax!


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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Oh that was nice...he just left. Chatted for about 15 minutes, asked him how late he was out because he looked tired and I knew he was working last night, patted him on the face, gave me a great hug. That HG (the one who is married) came down to go to the courthouse, and I introduced them and H didn't flinch when I intro'd as husband...this is the only person in my office who knows we are S. The hug was a warm, close hug, felt really good.

\:\) I am so smiling right now...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Woot!!!!


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Yay!!!

(((Lola)))

Sounds like a very nice chat!

The hug was a very nice positive too!


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Yay LOLA!!!!!!!!!!! Sounds like the perfect encounter!


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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