I can't put my finger on it exactly, but I get the feeling that you thought she would have some big epiphany once she had to leave your house. And, that you are anxiously waiting and watching for any signs that it may be happening. You're wasting valuable time and energy. Try to disconnect from her words and actions.
Great words 'spitty'. I don't have to reiterate....don't look for anything frank...except the things your kids need for school. Do their homework with them...make the lunches....clean the house FOR YOU. DEFINITELY.....stop trying to do anything for her. If you are doing an activity or preparing something to say...and thinking about how your W will react to it, then you are NOT DETACHING.
Do for YOU.
Work for YOU.
Spend with YOUR KIDS.
She CAN'T come back to you right now..unless you want to beat me in # of OM's.............
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
