Corri, I am writing this from an HD perspective, so take that for whatever it's worth! HD's tend to feel unsupported, and unloved in general, if the sex falls off for whatever reason. It is the way that I decompress, de-stress, and unwind. If I was having a bad month at work (which I do all the time, since I am a SAHM, lol) and could not decompress by making love with H, I would be very short and snippy. I am not defending your husbands actions at ALL; I don't really think it's that attractive when I do it either! But I am hoping to present the other side of the coin, which is that if your H is having a stressful month, there is NO OTHER time in which he needs your love more than then. I betcha he'd say that he'd rather be a sexed up zombie than a frustrated zombie any day!
I know that making love with a mean zombie probably is not all that attractive to you, but the rewards that you could reap by lovingly offering him some restorative sex are immense.
Ok, I'm most likely way off on my interpretation of your situation but I just thought I'd throw it out there anyway!
HD's tend to feel unsupported, and unloved in general, if the sex falls off for whatever reason. It is the way that I decompress, de-stress, and unwind. If I was having a bad month at work (which I do all the time, since I am a SAHM, lol) and could not decompress by making love with H, I would be very short and snippy. I am not defending your husbands actions at ALL; I don't really think it's that attractive when I do it either! But I am hoping to present the other side of the coin, which is that if your H is having a stressful month, there is NO OTHER time in which he needs your love more than then. I betcha he'd say that he'd rather be a sexed up zombie than a frustrated zombie any day! 
