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He's been very good about it really, saying he will try and sort things out so he is not so tired. But somehow I feel a lot more frustrated just now. I want to be nice but at the same time I want to say (with great sarcasm) "Oh great, so in a few months time you might feel like it, wow, fantastic"




Are you inside my head? Seriously, these same exact thoughts have run though my mind on occasion, although I'm sure it's just frustration getting an upper hand once in a while. I think it's normal, Jiji and Sooner.

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I know he is trying. It's just hard for me to empathise with him sometimes. He's just not interested, I think he sees it in the same way I view housework- an annoying necessity that he must get round to some time. That doesn't exactly make me feel great. How depressing we are. Feeling a bit negative right now tho - poor us.




I, too, find it hard to empathise but I know he's trying and I've got to hand it to him, he's been a trooper about going and getting checked out by the doctor and then agreeing to see a C. And yet I can't help but feel a bit down, which I also think is normal, Jiji and Sooner.

The weekend was very nice and we were able to get away to my FIL's, but again another weekend went by and nothing happened, even though H told me "I guess I'm a once-a-week-in-the-morning guy." Sundays are usually the only free morning we have and now I'm SOL for another week.

GR








Domestic Abuse Survivor since 6/26/2002