I think you need a better arrangement. You can't be at her beck and call like that. Isn't there a way for her to arrange overnight visitation? You need at least a day once in awhile to not be accountable to her.
That is the plan. sort of, I'm not in a hurry to loose the kids for a week at a time, last we spoke of it her idea is to get an apartment and we'll split the kids 50/50. (The longer this goes the less I like that idea.) It's not all downside. I get to go out at least 2 or three nights a week which is way more than I did in the beforetime.
But you are right. I do need to be less accountable to her sometimes. Right now she rents a room in a shared house with two other roomates. I'm not sure I'd be ok with the kids staying there. W did mention it once.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
