Hi Lola...have fun when you see him. The outfit does sound pretty nice are you wearing FM pumps?? I was thinking you could spritz just a little of the spray in your hair and nowhere else. Vanilla may make him think of home baked goodies too so it should be a positive smell
About the office party. I think that you know your sitch best so if NOT inviting him is best right now then don't invite him.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*