Quote: At the moment though I'm getting really tired of thinking in terms of "the long run". Know what I mean?
God yes, I know what you mean!
Had this wierd thing with my H (LD) last week when I gave him some letters telling him how I feel and even got him to look at the website. It was very emotional I have never really said any of this to him so clearly. I guess I knew I couldn't expect any miracles, but I must have been hoping for one. He's been very good about it really, saying he will try and sort things out so he is not so tired. But somehow I feel a lot more frustrated just now. I want to be nice but at the same time I want to say (with great sarcasm) "Oh great, so in a few months time you might feel like it, wow, fantastic"
Don't worry I didn't say that. I know he is trying. It's just hard for me to empathise with him sometimes. He's just not interested, I think he sees it in the same way I view housework- an annoying necessity that he must get round to some time. That doesn't exactly make me feel great. How depressing we are. Feeling a bit negative right now tho - poor us.
