Why is it my XH finds such petty things to complain about?

1) Today I told him I had to go out at around 10:45 (had a IC but he thought I had a class) so he said he'd pick D up. He called around 10:30 to say he was on his way then at about 10:40 my C called to reschedule the session but I didn't call XH to let him know because he would have already been on his way. I spoke to him about 10:55 to see where he was and then told him it was ok because my "class" was cancelled. He got upset that I didn't tell him because as he said "I could have had breakfast". Now how in the heck did I know he didn't have Bfast so I told him just that. A tad pissed over me NOT being able to read his bloody mind! He picked her up and off they went!

2) So he calls again about 30 minutes later with this for openers..."you have got to be the weirdest woman" I'm thinking WTH is it now! Turns out I didn't pack the right bathing suit for D. She has swimming lessons today and I packed a bikini instead of her Speedo. I told him she can still swim with the bikini on but from now on I'd pack the Speedo. He said "it'll have to do because I'm not coming back!"

And then I check my tarot reading for the day and this is what I read...
There's a great deal of aggression on the horizon in your personal life today, Jennifer! Under the auspices of the Tower, people are arguing and tearing each other apart on all sides... Your partner is troubled, your friends aggressive, and your family members unpleasant.


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road