I think once you finally start to let go, it gets easier and easier with time. I am finding now that I have started detaching, I dont stress so much, and realize I will be okay either way. Do you feel like that?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I feel much better than I did a couple of weeks ago as far as stress goes. I am eating well again, getting work done, etc. I'm still pretty confused though, but it's not on my mind constantly.
How long is too long to wait to call a girl once you've gotten her number? I wont be available to go out until late next week, but I want to call this girl my dad set me up with and take her out. Should I call and talk to her and let her know that I won't be available until next weekend, but wanted to call her now so she didn't think I wasn't interested?
I need to focus on me and not be waiting around for XGF to make up her mind...and she needs to know that too. I'm interested taking this new girl out, so I don't want to miss an opportunity because I was hung up on the xgf.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
Yes call her. Chat with her on the phone a few minutes, and then let her know that you won't be available. She has already been anticipating your call for some time, so bite the bullet, and call!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Can you take five minutes? That's all it takes, just to show her you are interested.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
DO NOT respond to the text message. Even hours later. If she was just filling you in on things, that requires NO response. Are you listening to us?? DO NOT RESPOND!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Kris, We were never married. I've been with her for five years. Things weren't really moving and all the sudden she told me she was going to go out with someone else. A few weeks later she was full bore into him. That's pretty much the jist of it. If you want to read it from the beginning my first thread was in hopefullness.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
