"Has the thought ocurred to you that he wants to talk about moving back in but he gets too scared to bring it up and that's why he cancels?"
I, too, have thought of that. About that two year mark, there are some coincidences in our situations.
Dar--it could be that your h wants to move home but he is afraid of what you might say to that.
Glam's H is making great progress toward coming home--about two years there as well.
My H--it has been just over two years and some stuff would lead me to believe he may be headed that way but it is not as evident as Glam's h.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19