Hi Dq - Thanks for your reply. My friend whose husband I strayed with does not know the extent of the affair and I have put much distance between us. She would like to be friends but I cannot out of respect firstly to my husband and secondly guilt. We live in the same community which begs the question should i move?
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The only 3 people who know are myself , my husband and the Man in question and he thinks my husband does not know. Although my husband does not want another sole to know , he is tormented with the thought that this guy thinks he has one over him.
The less people know, the better. It makes re-integrating into a social circle easier. Your husband's pride has been deeply hurt. In ancient cultures, the man whose wife cheated on him was often ridiculed publicly as a "cuckold". In some cases the couple decides it's best to move to a new town/city to avoid contact with the OM/OW.
The only thing that will satisfy your husband is no-contact with OM or his unsuspecting spouse. Are you in contact with either of them now? If so, end all contact.
