i still think about stbx all the time but are able not to do it for long stretches of times nor wallow in what/who/when anymore, force your mind to do the thought-stopping technique, in time your mind will catch up and will shorten up the amount of time you spend thinking of him, it works \:\)

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.