TD, As you will probably not have a chance to read this, there seems little point in posting to you, but I really wanted to say a huge thankyou for all that you have done so selflessly for the people on this board. It is only recently that you hopped aboard my journey, but even in that short space of time, you have given me enormous support and sound compassionate and intelligent advice.

I am very sad that you find yourself in another tricky situation, and it sounds like you explained yourself to her with honesty, and the integrity that you have displayed so many times in your posts here.

I am sure that your W will come to see that your presence here was only for the good of your M and R, but I very much appreciate your need to withdraw out of respect for your wife's wishes.

You are a giant of a man, and you will be sorely missed here.

Thankyou again for all that you have done for me, and all the people who you have shared with here.

God bless.


me: 45
w: 43
Married 19yrs
Separated 6 months
2 children
Bomb April2008
OM/EA May 2008.
Not filed yet.