I think you are feeling your loss and are just wanting things to happen...now. I don't blame you, we have all felt exactly the same way. The way to save yourself is just to keep working on you. What changes do you want to make in your self, not just externally but internally too?
I know you have heard this a million times but you have spent this last year thinking of her. Where were you in the equation? You were so wrapped up in your thoughts of her and your R that you lost yourself along the way. Let's work on getting Roger back.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory