its hard bcause yes she did want to be persued in the begining, but latley when I ask her to do stuff she stands me up. I did used to be a real smuck when it came toour inportant dates. she always had a present waiting with a card and i always seemed to forget. so im tryinmg to do a 18o by noticing the date but i dont want to put " pressure " on her. so i figured I would just call and say " thinking of you. have a good day"