That did make sense, how did you get to the point that your H didn't consume your every thought? That is my problem now, I can't seem to get him out of my mind.
(((HUGS)))
nlt:
I honestly think this takes a long time. At first you are in shock about the A, then you are so numb to it all, and yes, it does consume your mind, your every waking moment. Then you become angry...............
It took me almost a year to get somewhat past this but it did take me almost two years from the time I discovered the A to give this to God to deal with, let go of the anger, forgive, love unconditionally and to zip my lips.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
