Phil, I'm sorry this is going the way it's going. I feel a ton of resistance. mixed with a little antagonism. I don't want it to be that way. I don't think it helps you if you feel unsupported here. We're all just trying to help.
I heard that each time a circuit breaker is opened because of too much amperage that it will lower the amount of amperage needed to open it for the next time. Too many times and you will need to replace the circuit breaker.
I always forget that I cant operate my microwave and deep fryer at the same time.
If Mama didn't like the fact that I told you your faith was being tried by fire she sure isn't gonna like this next thing:
You're a poser.
You are well versed in the law that surrounds the Word but so clearly lacking the true personal experience with the grace and mercy that should have, by now, caused at least some amount of mercy and graciousness to flow out of YOUR spirit.
The Word you claim to know and believe so deeply in states clearly that the power of life and death lie in the tongue and yet almost every time you open your mouth you make the conscious, willful decision to kill.
You were supposed to be the spiritual leader of your home and you failed miserably and can't face that fact which is why you're always whining and pointing the finger at your wife. I know it makes ya feel all warm, fuzzy and righteous to imagine the little lady back in her proper place under your roof and the kids all beaming and joyful - and I reckon you're bargaining that that's exactly when you will start, too...
Let me know how that works out for you!
Awww hell Phil, let's cut the BS here. You don't believe in God. You think you ARE God.
If you thought yourself a mere mortal human like the rest of us, you would have taken the direction I gave you earlier regarding finding out what God says about your family. I mean seriously, any idiot can google that very phrase and find a starting point. But it is beneath you somehow to do what might remotely resemble toiling. You want everything spelled out for you so you can poo poo it and attempt to baffle us with more useless rambling.
You think you're in the wilderness - well I'm beginning to think you're more akin to the one that visited Jesus when HE was in the wilderness. I mean, you can sure quote scripture but I don't hear anything about you getting into the Word for yourself to find the answers that will save your family.
Additionally, you've got a mouth that doesn't declare anything but lies. Which Father DO YOU SERVE??? Your wife is not a whore. She is a virtuous woman. You see Phil what you fail to grasp is that your wife has fallen into the hands of the enemy due, in part, to her past and the fact she married a dude who himself was in the hands of the enemy. But she REMAINS a child of God with His Word planted deep inside her spirit and it will rise up and save her. It sure won't be because of your intercessory prayer though because for every sincere prayer you might have prayed, you've canceled it out within hours with the words that you later spoke.
Do you KNOW that the enemy HAS EARS and he hears all the filth you spew about your wife and TO your wife? He DELIGHTS in it! You do him proud. He wants that woman and he uses your lack of REAL wisdom and self-control to get closer every day to owning the deed to her soul. At this rate it's gonna be a twofer.
You JOB - THE CALL - is not for you to work in the enemy's camp but instead to serve the One to Whom she belongs, rather than lament your opinion that she's gone too wayward. And while I'm on it let me just tell you this: SHE CAN'T GET BEYOND HIS REACH.
You need to learn compassion and respect. Each has been given to you in abundance and it is the work of the Lord. You don't appreciate it.
You appear to be nothing more than a self-righteous, blind, old, fool that has a severe Napolean complex.
Maybe before you search the Word for what God says about your family you should first search it for what it says about YOU. You don't know who you are. In your case, I don't think it's that you have forgotten either. I think you just don't know the Power that would be behind you if you would dare to get your ENTIRE self in line with the Word.
You can speak life to your dead marriage. It's right there laid out for you in Ezekiel 37.
Thus saith the Lord...
Also, God's Word says He will (not 'might' but WILL) bind up the brokenhearted, heal that which is sick and bring back that which was driven away but you really NEED to hear the "driven away" part.
Man, it was you behind the wheel.
One more thing, lose the pirate crap.
If you want your family back start by rebuilding their home.
And this time smartypants, don't forget the Chief Cornerstone.
wow phil you kind of sound like me... except you post you anger, i kept it in. it comes through in life though. people can tell what you are thinking. i didn't chill out for a long time. i spoke all of the faith stuff, but couldn't give up my fleshly anger. i'm divorced, it didn't work for me too well. you have the power through God to do this. you have to live it. give up your life to live for Him. it's easier said than done. don't take 3 years to learn like i did. it blows, you waste a lot of time learning and relearning something that's in you all along.
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I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
I read half your post and stop reading. Utter BullSh|t.
For one there isn't any verse that utters the word family.
It is about you. It is about self. Him to you. You to him. That is all. Submission.
And I got this pride stuff.
Yes I am prideful. You know why. Because. I put this woman on the top. She didn't see it.
I let her be a stay at home mom. I let her raise her children, where she didn't have to worry about working. Then I gave into everyone of her demands of what she wanted in this home.
It was not good enough.
Prideful yes... Because I did it for over 10 years. Gave her the life she thought she wanted. She didn't have to work.
How many of you out there wish you didn't have to work.
Now we are not rich by any means. I make decent money. Decent. Enought to keep us floating.
It's the resources and talent I have from God that gave us extras.
NO AMY I AM NOT GOD! I know who he is...
You if anything are a false prophet. A female one at that. You have no authority to teach sister. So shut up! I told you to go home. Excuse after excuse with you.
I only wish someone anyone would have the balls enough to stand up to her and tell her the same thing.
AMY GO HOME! Addition, drinking... you care whatever... I don't care... GO HOME! And shut up and be submissive to your husband and he will to you.
Then and only then if you stand next to the damn guy rather then beat him down with BS you think you know will you have peace.
Google this, or google that... It's all BS.
She isn't coming back...until she is ready. Are you ready?
I don't want her back. I can live my life without her.
Pride, yes I have pride... Because I took care of it. All of it. Whatever she wanted she got in reason, or in time.
Sorry, Phil, but Amy is right. And you just banished her because she's right. You couldn't finish her post because it was too close to the truth for you.
You don't want her back. Okay.
You "let your wife raise her kids?" What's that supposed to mean? What an arrogant statement! And you put her on top? No, you called her names, you went out drinking, you pushed her and smashed pizza in her face. That's not putting her on top, Phil. We're not buying it. And you don't understand why she left and is staying away?
Amy doesn't have the authority to teach? And why is that--because she's a woman? Oh, don't even go there, Phil, Mr. "Amateur Lay Theologian." Go back to Acts, read Paul's epistles--women not only taught, they were deaconesses, they led communities. Quit taking things out of context and understand the context. You think women don't teach in the Catholic Church? Open your eyes and look around.
Amy's right, Phil.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Lost Phil can google but he cannot "SEE" he needs no help he cannot be helped or broken because he is the man.
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Re: Welcome to the Jungle WAW#14 [Re: LostPhil] Posted by: LostPhil Jezebel=Impudent, Insolent, marked by contemptuous or cocky boldness or disregard of others. Overbearing. Insultingly contemptuous in speech or conduct.
And the number one answer!
PROUD!
Look what I found in seconds from googling what Phil posted-Hmmmm Quarter 1 Vocabulary Vocabulary from I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou
impudent adj. marked by contemptuous or cocky boldness or disregard of others;
insolently adj. insultingly contemptuous in speech or conduct : overbearing : exhibiting boldness or effrontery : impudent, proud
See the similarities to your explanation of the meaning of Jezebel. No mention of any or all of above meaning, or = Jezebel. Back pedal Phil, You haven’t changed one jot. I know I was not on your list of people who could post but I am so worried about all the damage you are doing to your children. So I had to give it one last shot like so many keep doing. Phil you appear to not have a friend in the world, doesn't that tell you anything about you? Listen and let people help you stop playing the poor me card, you missed a word out cos Amy posted late and you couldn,t sleep. You have always got the answer you are fooling no one. You are not an intelligent man, your posts are not even coherant at times,( maybe posted after too much something who knows). I only hope the school will pick up on the life your children lead and take action. Please please get help you are a very sick man.
