My wife did not bring up anything about the divorce this weekend. Her focus is on her brothers wedding.Her mother will be in town tommorrow night. I will pray for peace this week, for my mother in law, and my wife.The only thing she said was to her brother, she said My oldest son, was mad at her for wanting the divorce and was not going to the wedding. The truth is , his wife and he are going to a wedding in the bay area. He is not happy with her, that is the truth. I have talked to him and let him know that I am ok, and don't treat your stepmother badly, she is in MLC.He understood.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
One thing we learned at church yesterday. God is the God of today, our faith is today and our hope is for the future.That is why it is a waste of time and energy to worry about tommorrow, because we do not know if we will even be here.So live in today.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Really wanted to ask my wife if she had seen an attorney for help with the settlement agreement.But I kept my tongue in my mouth.She has not brought the divorce or the sale of the house. I am actually doing projects around the house, just because it needs it. If we have to sell, I will be that much closer to having it ready. Maybe after her brothers wedding she will be more motivated.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Well, wife just dropped by my work and informed me that she retained a lawyer for a thousand dollars to help her finish the settlement agreement. Lawyer tried to talk he into taking some of my pension,she said absolutely not, i have done enough to him already.So it sounds like it is just a matter of time before our marriage is over. Just thinking about it saddens me.Then she asks me if I need anything at the grocery store.The MLCer , you got to love em.
Last edited by craig54; 08/25/0811:34 PM.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
My wife will not see any anger, any tears, she will only see the love of the Lord. This is her journey, she must travel it. I must travel mine.Hopefully someday, our roads will merge back together. If it is God's will.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
I am pretty bummed out today, I must admit.My wife seems so emotionally lost.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Oh Craig, I am so sorry you are feeling sad. My new favorite saying is, "It is what it is." This is her journey, nothing you could do about it. Stay the course. Find your own happiness. Do something just for you.
Hang in there, friend. You will get through this. And hopefully she will one day realize what she had.
I am sure she will someday, but for now she is so far away.With God's grace I will be ok. It is just so unnecessary.Yes, i will get through this, i will thrive again.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
As much as I hate the thought of having my marriage breakup,I know the Lord has something wonderful for me.What? I don't know yet, it has not been revealed.I do know that I am healing, slowly. I know i can still attracted to women, so I am not dead, at least not yet.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Something good is in store for you because being the kind of man you are matters. And the thing is, we dont know what life has in store for us. Kind of makes it interesting though, doesnt it?
Well, it is good that you are not dead. Dead is not good.
