You need to cut out ALL communication!!!!He relies on you to give him a reason everyday to justify his A. STOP!!! Fighting with you makes his alien brain think he has done the right thing. If it doesn't have to do directly with the kids do not talk to him. And no more ILY's. That just makes them angry. You have to remember that this is not the man you married, this is an ALIEN.

I know this is all very hard, but you can do it. My thoughts and prayers are with. Be STRONG!!!!!

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S-13 &14
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DT-5
PA-21-08-07
Came Home 12-01-08
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