I agree with JenInVen - it feels to me that she is not stringing you along to be purposefully manipulative; she is just hungry, in pain, lonely, needy, worried.
Am I doing the right thing? I kinda miss the sex.. Floyd wasn't so bad. This new guy .. .the flame is sort of dissipating with him. Oh my gosh what did I do? I wonder if Floyd would take me back? I bet he would, especially with the new boobs. But I'm afraid of going back. I don't want to look at the mess!
But whatever, that is just me getting in her head which is NOT where I should be. If I were in your shoes I would think about my principles and how I wanted to act in life, and I would work like hell to live up to those principles. Here's a woman in a relationship (maybe it is troubled, but that is not for me to judge)... and she is coming onto me. I would run from that. Run. Flee.
What if a co-worker came up to you and let you in on an embezzlement scam? Would you do it? Sheesh, this stuff feels dishonest. Stay away. It's not right.
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She then said she wished she wasn't in a relationship. I replied by saying that I did too, but it is what it is...and I left it at that.
In response to this, what if you said, "Well, I'm sure you'll figure out what you want." ?? That feels like an encouraging thing to say, but at the same time a gentle reminder that SHE needs to CHOOSE.
