Thanks dude... you are someone else I know that takes things out of context.
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lustfully looking at her in church
I already said it was wrong, because I was in Church. However these are the scraps I get. At least I'm lustfully looking at my wife in a non chalant way, and she is my wife. I'm not lustfully looking at someone else. Then that brings me to a point of justification. Before we got married and went to our classes with the priest. He said our bedroom is a Church. I was in Church. We were married in Church. I think I can have a morsel of thought of making love to my wife while I'm in Church.
WTF is this?
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go out, and not just to church. and don't get drunk.
When did I say I was getting drunk. I quit drinking. When I do go out I run into a bunch of aholes. Why because they are drunk, high, or whatever. The freaks really do come out at night. I would much prefer to socially drink after work like I used too.
WTF is this?
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quit chewing
Wow you are some detail oriented person. I only mentioned in one post that I used snuff. She ask me to quit. Ok, why does she care. We are seperated. Sorry I'm not ready to quit chewing. I did it for too long, and have an extreme addiction to nicotine. Guess what. I smoked and chewed when we were dating. I smoked for the first year of marriage. When daughter was born I quit smoking.
I did quit chewing after son was born. But you know beer=chew. Plus there was too much stress with building this house, my job, and dealing with her to stay quit.
After the holidays I tried to go on Wellbutrin. But that stuff made me worse. It worked the first day. Then by day three I was ready for the bridge dealing with a WAW@Home stage.
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cussing
It's my solace. Besides I cuss for edification purposes. Yes I do it too much. Listen to this story. The hunky priest at my Church was a movie buff. We borrowed a movie from him. There was nudity in it. It looked like Marty Gras parade. My father in law told him about it. He said you tell your son in law he is an a$$hole. That movie was shot in France.
Ok, here is something I never ever do. I never ever ever use the Lord's name in vain. NO GD's and no JC's or any form of it.
Trust me if anyone of you met my wife, you would throw water on her. She is a very difficult woman.
Today I think I saw some change.
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stop criticizing her, to other people.
I agree it is a fruitless activity.
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Would you rather be right or married
I thought you said you read my sitch. KS and I have beat this topic to death.
I need support, not stupidity.
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Stop laying all your feelings on her. She has enough going on without you piling on top.
And what is it that she has going on. MLC? Depression? Selfishness? I don't want to be a mother anymore, and I definetly don't want to be a wife anymore.
SizPrizeMe... I think you have some value in what you say. But to me all of this is BS. All of it. Nothing will be right until she snaps out of it. Let me love her like I have been shown how to love. Stop all the bickering. The malice... Her anger. Love her man that gives her anything she wants.
Put her on a pedastal she wanted. I thought I was.
All fabrications. Even today with the school issue. You never wanted to take the kids on the first day before why now?
No, the kids didn't want me to take them. They only wanted you to take them. I was going to go with you guys. I wasn't aloud by you or the kids.
I'm thinking even today. My wife would always say don't embarrass me when you pick up the kids. Because I'm the funny guy. One time I went to pick up the kids on my day off. I shook everyone's had and said hello I'm the cool dad.
The next day. She told me I was an idiot for doing that, and I embarrassed her. So SOOOOOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRRRY! That you one idiot PTA mom thought it was weird. Everyone else laughed.
It's all BS... All of it...
Justify... Yep... I can justify everything in this book and with this book.
1 Timothy 6:23 Stop drinking only water, have a little wine for the sake of your stomach and your frequent illnesses.
How about a little bit of beer?
Ephesians 4:29 No foul langauge should come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for needed edification, that it may impart grace to those who hear.
Shout at the devil and swear at the demons perhaps?
SirPrizeMe... you have plenty of gall. Like others. I don't think you really read all of my threads, or you would no better. What really gets me in the chewing comment. That was a needle, and absolute needle in the haystack but you somehow found it.
Now this is the verse that my wife and I need to concentrate on.
Ephesians 4:31 All bitterness, fury, anger, shouting, and reviling must be removed from you, along with malice.
