Should I stay or should I go now...

[Floyd101]

Thanks everybody for your input. I appreciate it. You all have me thinking really hard about what is going on. I need to take a few days and get my head screwed on straight.

Do you want to be a man who has inappropriate conversations with a woman, when there is another man in the background assuming she is faithful?

Absolutely not. I've struggled with that. I guess I never really accepted the situation for what it is and have kind of felt like we still have our R, when we dont.

Do you guys think she is conciously stringing me along, or do you think its just that she is struggling with her thoughts, but doesn't realize how it's affecting things?

I had an appointment this evening with a client. She sent me a text before I was getting ready to leave asking me if I wanted her to meet me at my office this evening. I told her no, not until she gets her situation straightened out. She told me it might be a while then. I told her that was ok. She then said she wished she wasn't in a relationship. I replied by saying that I did too, but it is what it is...and I left it at that.

I haven't spoken to her since, and won't be for a while until I get some things figured out for myself.