Sandy,

I know those exchanges make you feel better, and you certainly are justified, but make no mistake -- they are NOT helping your cause.

Please stop reacting to his sh(t.

He needs to look back on this and see his wife, taking the classy high road, and his mistress pressuring him to NOT visit HIW OWN FREAKING FAMILY.

All you're doing is lowering yourself to his -- and her -- level when you react to his prods.

Puppy