I just wanted to thank you for your input and let you know that it was very encouraging. I consider advice from low desire, or previously low desire, wives to be extremely valuable in my situation. My girls are 5 and 2, and like you my wife works full time. Whatever energy she has left after a day at work is quickly taken away by the girls. I'm hopeful that things will start to improve as they get older and become more self-sufficient. In the meantime guess I'll try to be a chameleon. Glad to see that your situation is slowing improving. Best of luck!
